Now im going to a wedding tomorrow, one of my friends is getting married after having been with his girlfriend for 6 years (or so).

Now this isnt the point of the thread!



HELP!


See my girlfriend is getting this strange notions of marriage, which are downright terrifying, we have a house together, and a kid, i dont really feel like adding another chain around my wrist, especially since im already feeling cramped up and boxed in.

I just cant wait to get this thing over, so she wont comment on me not proposing every single day.

I dont really believe in marriage, and i dont really believe on monogami either, but its kinda the standards the world set for us.

Closing on 30 and im pondering if there is something im missing.

heading for an early midlife crisis here, its my second one, i had my first when i was 21.