So, I' m Nineteen. Just asked a girl out that was Twenty-One. Know what she told me, " She is more mature than she looks and doesn' t think it would work out."

O.O

I have never heard someone so grossly misuse the word Mature. So do you forum goers think I am mature? Heck are any of us mature, keep in mind the original definition of the word is to be complete.

What she said and what she meant by it are two completely different things.

If she talks about herself in the 3rd person like that... thats just weird. Maybe your better off.

If you feel the need to ask the question in the first place I would have to so no, however you do come across as older than your age most of the time on here.

Whenever a girl says that it usually means she wants a guy with a car. I wouldn' t worry about it too much.

Whenever a girl says that it usually means she wants a guy with a car. I wouldn' t worry about it too much.

But I have a car :(. Hehe, yeah. I' m not going to worry much about it, but considering there was 4 responses I think the title works :P

If you feel the need to ask the question in the first place I would have to so no,

Aww, being insecure doesn' t mean you' re not mature, or... does it, I mean I didn' t really think about it before now, does that make me oblivious? Does that mean I' m immature? Maybe I am. NO! Wait, I just admitted that I' m not as mature as I could be, meaning I' ve just gained some maturity. Or maybe I just have low self esteem. But how do I know that? Are they the same thing? Is one needed for the other to happen? Maybe I should ask someone else. No! Can' t do that, mature people can work out their own problems on their own. But since I just admitted that, then I have some awreness of my own abilities and limitations, or maybe I' m just self centered. No, wait...


It' s what I listen to in my head all day long. Like a giant psychic see-saw.